A five-day intensive grounded in brain research and practical tools that keep working after you go home. With support for the people who love you, too.
Pick one and the rest of this page speaks to you. You can switch any time.
Each intensive is for men and limited to 15 participants. No commitment, this just helps us help you.
If you have made the promise before and ended up back in the same place, you are not the exception, and you are not broken.
A habit that has run for years wears a groove in the brain. Every time it runs, the groove gets a little deeper, and the next time gets a little easier. Promising yourself it won't happen again does nothing to the groove. It only asks you to stand at the edge of it by willpower, every day, forever.
Very often the first person looking for help is not the one who is struggling. If that is you, this page was written for you too.
A habit that has run for years wears a groove in the brain. That does not excuse it, and it is not your fault. It does explain why promises have not held, and why willpower alone keeps failing. It also means the pattern can change, with the right work and the right support around it.
A different premise
That is how the habit formed, and it is also the way out. Addiction in Remission turns published brain research into specific practices you do during the intensive and keep doing at home, so the old loop loosens and a new path takes its place.
Weaker with disuse.The loop you stop feeding loosens.
Stronger with practice.The path you repeat becomes the easy one.
Each area is a place where specific, tangible practice changes how the brain responds. Worked on together, they strengthen the ability to resist urges and make the new path the easy one.
The free guide names all six. Each comes with one practice you can start this week, in plain English.
Get the free guideThe six points, named and explained in plain English, with one practice from each you can start this week.
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| Included | IntensiveThe core five days | RecommendedGoldPlus a month of support | PlatinumThe most support |
|---|---|---|---|
| Free consultation | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| DISC and 360 assessments | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Five days of the six-point model | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| One-on-one sessions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Weekly follow-up, first month home | No | Yes | Yes |
| Daily follow-up, first weeks home | No | No | Yes |
| Ongoing monthly check-ins | No | No | Yes |
Pricing and fit are covered on your free consultation. No pressure, and no obligation.
Small, private and unhurried. Room to think, and people who understand.
The person who loves you often has no idea how to help. When you register, your spouse or partner receives materials of their own by email, and more while you are at the intensive, so you both start from the same page.
You will not attend the intensive, but you are not left out. When they register, you receive materials of your own by email, and more while they are at the intensive, so you know what they are learning and what to expect when they come home.
Every consultation is with Chris or Dallen, not a sales rep.
Clinical health psychologist
Chris owns Family Advocacy Center and Connections Counseling Services, and has owned both residential treatment centers and counseling clinics, where he supervises clinicians on best practices. He studied psychology at BYU and completed his master's and doctoral work at Washington University in St. Louis.
Founder and lead coach
Dallen has 25 years in leadership development and executive coaching, and a master's in organizational development from BYU. A certified DiSC instructor, he uses 360 assessments and data to build functional behaviors that last, and he teaches the six-point model in the room.
Lead therapist
Jon brings 15 years of individual and couples therapy, with a master's in marriage and family therapy from USU. He specializes in supporting individuals and couples affected by sexual addiction.
From participants in ReConnection, the retreat and intensive this team also leads. Shared from their video testimonials.
The next day he told me, "Your countenance looks different. It looks lighter. You're smiling more." And so it took a burden off of me.
I was able to just address those things that I was intimidated to talk to a therapist about. It will be uncomfortable, honestly, but that's what we need.
Every day has just built on itself. I feel like I'll look back and say, that's where I went from going this direction to that direction.
It's deeper than what you would expect. You'll feel the depth of healing that happens here, around people who feel the exact same as you.
Yes. You can book one to ask your own questions, understand the intensive, and talk through how to bring it up. The intensive itself is for men who choose to come, so that decision has to be theirs.
Yes. You receive your own materials by email when they register, and more during the intensive, so you know what they are learning and what to expect when they come home. You can also book a consultation for yourself.
That is common, and it is often why partners lose hope. The difference here is the work: specific practice that reshapes the habit, and follow-up that continues after the five days end.
Men who want to change a habit that keeps pulling them back. Partners and family members do not attend, but they get materials of their own and can book a consultation.
No. We respect what 12-step groups do for many people, and some people use both. Our starting point is different: we focus on agency, and on specific practices that help the brain change.
The intensive is an education and personal development program led by trained professionals. It does not replace therapy, and it works well alongside it. If ongoing counseling would help afterward, we can connect you with it.
It depends on the level of follow-up you choose. We walk through pricing on the free consultation, along with whether the intensive is the right fit.
The next one is November 10 to 14, 2026. In 2027: January 26 to 30, February 23 to 27, and April 27 to May 1. Each runs Tuesday through Saturday, is for men, and is limited to 15 participants. Not sure which fits? Pick "Not sure yet" and we will help you decide on your consultation. The location is shared on your consultation.
Yes. Consultations are one on one and confidential, emails come from a discreet address, and groups are small. What is shared in the room stays in the room.
Yes. Your spouse or partner receives materials of their own by email after you register, and more during the intensive, so they know how to support you when you return. The intensive itself is for participants only.
About 30 minutes with Chris or Dallen. You talk about what has been tried, what needs to change, and whether the intensive fits. If it is not the right fit, they will tell you and point you somewhere better.
Thirty minutes, one on one, about where you are and whether the intensive is right for you.
Thirty minutes to ask anything: what the intensive involves, how to talk with them about it, and what support exists for you.
Pick a time that works for you. Times show in your own time zone.
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